Hello, I’m Dr. Felicia, and I’m here to speak to you about how to arrange vacation time after divorce. Now, very often, each parent wants to take their child with them to the, a vacation, a summer vacation. And sometimes you have conflicting times when you, vacations may fall at the same time. This is very important to work out ahead of time. If you’re lucky, you’ll do it at the time of the divorce and it becomes part of your divorce papers. What many parents do, is use alternate years. For instance, on odd years, the mother has the.
Child for vacations, and on even years the husband takes the child for vacations. They may do the same thing with Christmas and New Year’s vacation, Thanksgiving. One parent may get the odd years and one parent may get the even numbered years. And, that way, it’s all preset and preestablished, and both parents get to share in the child’s welfare. Where you have difficulty is when each parent wants the same time, and that’s obviously not going to happen. Ah, hopefully both of you will cooperate with this. If you have.